Added: Ieisha Lair - Date: 06.11.2021 11:26 - Views: 41959 - Clicks: 4224
References to cuckolding are all over the internet, so we asked sex experts to explain it. Traditionally, a cuckold was a man who was oblivious to his wife's adultery. But today, it means something quite different.
Basically, cuckolding is a sexual activity: Somebody the cuck gets turned on by their partner the cuckoldress having sex with another person the bull. The contemporary cuckold isn't necessarily a cisgender or heterosexual male, and is completely on board with their partner's affairs.
Here are different ways to enjoy this type of sex play, plus other crucial facts about cuckholding. From a psychological standpoint, cuckholding usually emphasizes degradation or humiliation of the partner who is being cuckolded—and again, any gender identity is applicable here. Humiliation stemming from the ridicule a person is likely to feel when their partner cheats on them plays a central role in the power-play dynamic of the situation, and it's this aspect that makes this particular kink a little more taboo than some others, Sells says.
Like many sexual fetishes, there are varying degrees of cuckolding. You don't need to go as far as watching your partner have sex with another person—you might get pleasure from listening to your partner talk about having sex with someone else either real or imagined. Hearing the details of your partner's fantasies about sex with other people, or about their sexual encounters, can be a good way to dip your toe into cuckolding if you're not sure how deep you want to go.
If you want to take it further, you could start with watching your partner flirt with somebody else in a bar, or send racy messages to somebody online. Watching your partner have sex with someone else is what most people associate with cuckolding, but it really is a scale and you can choose how far you want to go. You might simply watch from a distance, or you might tell the bull what to do to your partner.
Or you might decide to in—hello, threesome. For all sorts of reasons. Cuckolding can be a safe space for some to release deep sexual desires and lead to a more playful, powerful, and emotionally intimate sexual relationship.
Plus, cuckolding engages in fantasy play, which can make sex a much more intense and pleasurable experience. The cuckoldress usually assumes the sexually dominant role, as the one who has sex with other people, while the cuck remains sexually loyal. But remember, the rules aren't set in stone. Dominance may also appeal to the bull, who might be given permission to take over the cuck's role in the sexual partnership—with no strings attached.
In some cases, cuckolding may also inject life into a stale sexual relationship. Any kink that's centered around a power play can be dangerous, Sells says, potentially pushing people past their sexual and psychological limits. At each step, communication is crucial, Donaghue advises. Couples should make sure that all parties involved are interested in opening up, and that a lot of communication is had—before and after," he says.
Sells recommends setting boundaries and safe words. Cuckolding isn't for everyone, but for those that are into it, it can be a very rewarding and pleasurable experience.
No, but people often use the terms "cuckoldress" and "hotwife" interchangeably. Hotwifing is a little more basic, and more about the sexual act itself than about power or control. A "hotwife"—and again, it can refer to somebody of any gender identity, not just a cisgender heterosexual woman—shares their sexual adventures with their partner, who gets pleasure from hearing about them.
Here's What Experts Say. By Claire Gillespie December 22, Save Pin FB More. Close in. All rights reserved. Close this dialog window View image.How to get into cuckolding
email: [email protected] - phone:(287) 664-8824 x 6086
What Is Cuckolding, and Why Do Some People Enjoy This Sexual Activity? Here's What Experts Say